If you are like me, I am sending you a huge hug today…no kid should grow up feeling that way…I grew up thinking that I didn’t matter, I was a bother, someone who just created chaos…… this underlying belief impacted my adult life in many negative ways. Guess what I have learned……I MATTER! Not becauseContinue reading “Day 20: I MATTER”
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Day 19: I am going for it!
I hope you can feel the intensity in this one. This is the day I decided to stop playing small and stop tinkerin with being a soloprenuer and get real. Two weeks after this day I went official – I overhauled my company brought in two long term team members and set the course forContinue reading “Day 19: I am going for it!”
Day 8: I am creating my own love
Declare it. Own it. Believe it. Live it.
Day 7: Why is it so radical to love yourself?
Today is day 7 – the end of the original challenge – I am so grateful to my mentor for the push. My thoughts for this morning…..why is it so radical to love yourself and how you look? Where do we learn that from? How do we NOT perpetuate or project that on our children?Continue reading “Day 7: Why is it so radical to love yourself?”
Day 6: The wisdom I wish I had in my twenties
LOVE This! …..Have a beautiful day!
Day 3: I canʻt take all of the credit
A quick technical note – the words you will see on all of the quotes are not solely my words but rather adaptations of quotes and sayings I have seen or heard and collected along the way. As part of this process, some of them were aspirational for that day and some were meant asContinue reading “Day 3: I canʻt take all of the credit”
Day 5: I didnʻt break the internet
hahahah so….I have been posting photos of ME for a few days now and the world hasnʻt stopped moving, which was my silly fear…..hahaha so I will keep going. I have been printing out my posts and I am lining them up on my wall – my personal challenge was to go for 90 days,Continue reading “Day 5: I didnʻt break the internet”
Day 4: All it took was to first decide
At the age of two my brother slammed a swing into my face because he “hated me being in this world so much”, his words not mine, for some reason, he used to tell me this story all the time when we were growing up. His words “BK life was so great!” BK = Kalani.Continue reading “Day 4: All it took was to first decide”
Day 2: My WHY….
I started on this journey because I saw how hurtful the things I kept telling myself were — I would look at my children (7 and 8) and vowed that I had to figure out a way to stop the negative self-talk – if not for me, then I HAD to do it for myContinue reading “Day 2: My WHY….”
Day 1: Mahalo!
Mahalo for joining me on a personal journey of self-discovery and self-love. My hope is that I will illuminate a path to joy and happiness for you too! If you are already in a good place, I hope that I can deepen your strength and provide additional support to you along the way! I encourageContinue reading “Day 1: Mahalo!”